Monday, April 25, 2011

Torn Between 2 Lovers

If you are my age you remember this song well! It describes how I
feel perfectly! I have made a little life for myself here in Vienna,
albeit small, but a little life and I have one at home waiting for me.
I really don't even know what the song is about, 2 real lovers? 2
places? The reality is is that I am not torn at all, I will be ripped
away from one by Wake Forest University (which I love adore and
respect for letting me have the chance to be here) because apparently
they want to give a lot of professors and other students a chance to
live in this cool house and experience this amazing place, oh and they
want my husband back on campus to teach there too.

So I am working on my break up letter.....tell me what you think.
Dear Vienna,

Let's face it Vienna, if we stayed together you might grown to resent
me for hanging around all the time and trying to find out all your
secrets. I have to go back to my Winston Salem (I know its secrets)
and it still loves me. Sometimes I feel like you are the most good
looking city in the world, problem is you know it and you really take
good care of yourself, with all your clean and safe public
transportation. Don't get me started on how you have treated my
children, okay so sometimes you were grumpy to them, a little
bossy,and little mean talking to them. You are a bit contradicting
when you chastise my child for putting their feet on the seat of the
bus while you have your DOG on the seat next to you (Yes this really
happened). BUT then you go and do something completely surprising
like stopping the bus just because you see me coming with groceries,
or give a little half smile at one of my adorable children when you
don't know I am looking. You have educated me so much about history
and made me a better person! You have taught me a bit different way
to live and consume. Okay so you make a great cup of coffee and
always serve it in a real cup, is there no end to what you can do. I
appreciate the fresh baked bread everyday too! I hope you will let me
keep the pictures I have taken of you? I want to remember you every
day and time you gave me to be with my kids (for better or worse) and
my husband and all your neighbors Prague, Budapest and those guys are
awesome! Your friends at New City Wien also amazing and the Irish
family across the street. So in closing I hope we can be friends,
exchange email addresses and call everyday, or no maybe we should just
have fun with the time we have and meet back here in one year at this
exact same place and time. Yeh, let's do that!

Love,

Your friend for life Annamae

Monday, April 18, 2011

Ich bin ein Berliner

On June 26, 1963, President Kennedy gave one of his most famous speeches in Berlin, Germany. At the time, the Soviets attempted to stop the mass exodus of residents from east to west Berlin by constructing the infamous Berlin wall. In an attempt to convey his solidarity with the plight of the Berliners, Kennedy ended his speech with his famous "ich bin ein Berliner" (I am a Berliner!). The speech both roused the crowd and made quite a few people chuckle. By adding the article of "the" (ein), Kennedy was actually referring to himself as the famous jelly doughnut that shared the name "Berliner."  So, as a tribute to the only president in our history to refer to himself as a jelly doughnut, I bring you some news and views from my most recent trip to the famed city of Berlin:

 

Lillian and I departed on Thursday evening, April 14 on an overnight train from Vienna to Berlin. It was our first overnight train and we were both a bit nervous about what to expect. The room we were in had size bunk beds, 3 along each wall. My reservation was for one of the top bunks; Lillian occupied a bunk on the bottom. We left at around 10:30pm and arrived into Berlin at 9am. Sleeping was problematic for me because I couldn't quite extend my legs out of fear that I would kick an alarm that was positioned over the door. That, coupled with students making noise until after 1am made for a long night. Thankfully, the return trip on Sunday evening the 17th was much better (except for the group of 13 year olds who sounded like monkeys at the Berlin zoo).

 

Our Friday in Berlin was filled with the usual "hiccups" when you visit a new city. We had to figure out the public transportation routes, determine which tickets to buy, and so forth. The more you use public transportation the more you understand the underlying logic that all systems share. But there is still a sense of being lost when you try to figure out how everything is connected.  It took us a couple of hours to get the students checked into their hostel and for Lillian and I to check our bags at our hotel. We were only a couple of blocks from the students and were conveniently located a block from the U-bahn stop and a variety of shops.

 

I decided to pay for all of us to utilize a hop on, hop off city tour bus on our first day so we could get a lay of the land. I think this turned out to be a good choice. We stopped off at Checkpoint Charlie to see where people once had to pass through the Soviet section of Berlin into the Allied controlled section. We found this to be quite touristy, but from my perspective it was worth it just to stand there an imagine what life was like just 50 years ago. We also were able to see parts of the Berlin wall, Potsdamer Platz, Tiergarden Park, the Rathous, and the Reichstag (now Bundestag). That evening Lillian and I enjoyed a great pizza from a local Italian restaurant across the street from our hotel.

 

On Saturday, the RA (Brian) led us to some other famous sites. We spent some time at the Reichstag just sitting on the lawn enjoying the warm sunshine. We inquired about a tour but were told that you have to make reservations 2 weeks in advance because of security concerns! We then walked to the Holocaust Memorial. It was really an unusual memorial. From a distance it looks like hundreds of gray tombstones, but when you get closer your realize that they are simply gray blocks of concrete that are of different sizes and angles. I believe it was constructed in 1997 and the artist wished to convey the senselessness and disorderliness of the holocaust. Each of the concrete slabs was treated with a chemical that allows workers to easily remove graffiti. In a sad twist of irony, the company that produced the chemical for the memorial was also the producer of the gas used in the gas chambers in concentration camps.

 

We concluded our Saturday tour at the famous Sony Center. At first I was rather nonplussed. The Sony Center consists of an IMAX theater, some cafes, a photography museum and a few shops. The buildings are connected in a circle such that there is a large plaza in the middle that is covered by a glass dome. But the large screens that play in the Sony Center show that this is indeed a famous place. Berlin is the sister city to Los Angeles because of  its connection to filmmaking and movie screenings. Many famous people have come to the theater in the Sony Center for premieres.

 

Lillian and I then separated from the students and walked over 5 miles back to our hotel. We ended up back at our Italian restaurant (Portofinos) and each of us sampled a different dish than the night before. We concluded the evening by watching a movie in on my iPad (Imagine That with Eddie Murphy).

 

Sunday was a free day for everyone. Most of us made our way to the Berlin Zoo. It was really a spectacular zoo with many endangered animals. I believe in total there were 17,000 animals in the zoo! Lillian and I took it slow and then made our way to the train station for the return trip. Other students visited the Jewish Museum and a wax museum.

 

Overall, it was an amazing trip for a number of reasons. First, it gave Lillian and I an opportunity to connect in a much needed way. Ever since we came to Vienna I feel that she has had to fight for attention. She is separated from friends and has two brothers who often have needs that can frustrate her. But on this trip we were able to have great conversations, walk through parks while holding hands, enjoy meals without interruptions, and otherwise relax together. I know Annamae and I would love to have this opportunity as well!

 

Second, Berlin was worth seeing in an unexpected way. It is very different from other European cities I have seen, largely because many of the stately historic architectural buildings were destroyed in the war. As such, Berlin is constantly being reconstructed and reflects a confluence of new and old, historic and modern.

 

Third,  Berlin is a vibrant cultural center where art and popular culture reflect something that I found to be unique compared to Vienna. And finally, just being in a place where so much happened in the last 50 years (e.g., Hitler's bunker and suicide, the division of Berlin into 4 sectors, etc) gave me goosebumps. I hope to read and study more about this amazing city.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

We are getting a puppy!!!!!

Check out our new little guy. His name is Gus! We will be picking
him up soon after we get home. We already love him so much!!!!!
Can't wait to meet him. He is a goldendoodle his father is a golden
retriever and his mom is a black standard poodle. He is named after
the street (gasse) we live on here, Gustav Tschermackgasse.

Feast and Fasting....

Here I am in Vienna, a feast for the art lover, the chocolate lover, the wine lover, the history lover, the architect lover, the opera lover, the meat lover, the symphony lover...the list goes on, there are so many things to love and feast on in Europe. I personally have feasted on more than my share of cappuccinos, these cream torte thingys and most of those listed above. The richness and depth that exists here is astounding.

So in comes lent....you know where you sometimes deprive yourself of something delicious for a period of time? Then you gorge on it at the end because you missed it so much. Unless you are my husband then you make little rules along the way like, "you can have the thing you gave up every Sunday during lent" or "oreos are NOT Chocolate", you know the drill. I always change the rules when I "deprive" myself. Little did I know that coming to Vienna, while being a feast for the eyes is a fast of my good friendships. Fasts are supposed to be a learning opportunity right? So what have a learned? A few things I have learned...

1. I NEED friends. I need them in my life. I need people who KNOW me and STILL love me! I think we can sometimes convince ourselves that we don't need people, but I DO!

2. My friends make me a better person. I have friends that will speak into my life and ask me tough questions and help me grow. I have so many super intelligent and amazingly talented friends that I look good just standing next to them! I love that I have friends that nuture the different parts of my soul: my book club, my church friends, my street friends, my college student friends.....so many! Many overlaps here too!

3. There are a lot of people in my life that have moved away to live in other cultures for various reasons. I have been a terrible friend to them! I don't remember to call on skype, mail letters or even email. I hope that being here can help me learn to be a better encourager to those ladies ladies and pray for them.

4. One last thing I have learned is that if you take your kids away from their friends for four months, they will develop new skills, like my boys have learned to use the "countdown" app really well on the Ipad. My daughter has learned how to be a stalker. She looks up all her friends houses on google earth and looks at them when she gets sad. We have been watching yoou.

5. There are amazing people to befriend everywhere, I have loved the new friends I have made and appreciate them making room in their lives for me. I need to always be willing to make "room".

Since I have already mentioned the above you get the idea, you take something for granted, deprive yourself, and then stuff yourself silly when you finally can have it again. So watch out, here I come in one month my friends, your friend Annamae is going to try hard not to be a"gaping hole of sucking need" (I think this is Hunter that said this)but I will bug you, call you and hug your kids like a nut. We are not crazy really we aren't, I have just missed you, love you, and need you. No amount of chocolate can take the place of that, but I gave it a try anyway.....

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

King Richard was in prison here!

So far one of my favorite places so far is "Dürnstein", just a 50
minute train ride from Vienna.  Buy the 28 euro einfach raus ticket
from West Bahnhof and 5 people can go for the day on that one ticket!
It is another 2 euros or so per person to take the very short bus ride
from platform "B" to Dürnstein.  Get to the bus quickly after the
train and you won't have to wait, they work together.  Hike up to the
fortress where King Richard was help captive....we read all about this
in Homeschool 2 years ago.  It is beautiful and quaint. Kids can
pretend to be soldiers attacking the advancing armies.  The town is
amazingly cute!  There are liquors to be tasted and the white wine
there is awesome, the whole town is surrounded by vineyards.  Very
cool place to go and I think it has been one of the kids favorites.
Just in case you are reading this in order to plan travel.  Ticket
purchased from Westbahnhoff train leaves from Spittalaeu.
http://www.duernstein.at/sites/ueber_geschichte_en.php

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Rule #1 Helpful Vienna hints for visitors!

I have learned a thing or two in a short time about living in Vienna.
Throughout this blog will be a bit of a crash course in how to get
around, get things done.

Rule #1 - think about what you get done errand wise in a normal
American day and mark everything except for the 2 most important off
your list and you might accomplish it. For example in 30 minutes at
home I can drop off and check out library books, run through Krankies,
pick up my fruits and veggies from Julie's house, run through Harris
teeter for tonights dinner, and grab a few things at the dollar store,
all while have my daughter text 5 people to plan the next 30 minutes.
Life has slowed down for us quite a lot and I think the thing I
love/hate about home is how productive I can be with a cell phone and
a minivan.

Dragging groceries up a hill both ways, is good but man do you ever
have to priorities in the grocery, I don't care if Diet Coke is on
sale, and so far it never has been, I am not dragging it up the hill
for love or money! Packaged foods like frozen pizza are great but
take up a lot of space in the orange grocery rolling thing. Mind you
this is a staple of our diets! But you have to prioritize, a) can I
carry it and b)if I don't get more of it, I have to get back and
stinking get more tomorrow. A constant dilemma. Our diet here is not
variable at all for this reason. I cannot collect enough stuff to
offer many different kinds of options for meals like we do at home.

Below is a quick breakdown of some stores that was extremely helpful
to me! My friend Jen Beilman and Stacy Hunter were great guides in
this area.

If you see DM - think drug store, CVS, Walgreens
If you see Mueller - think Target, BUT they wrap presents for you for
free! Legos, train sets, kitchen, shampoo.
If you see Hofer - think Aldi cause they are the same thing (bring CASH)
If you see Eurospaar - think Kroger or Harris Teeter
If you see Merkur - think bigger grocery store, lots of brands and departments
If you see Bipa - think Walgreens with a touch of Spencers (even
though they have handcuffs and other police type devices, this is not
a law enforcement supply store) This so far is labeled, store most
likely to get my kids to say, "what is that for mommy?'

This is just an initial list...more later!

It's Winter time! Our first visitors!

Having friends from USA visit us in Vienna is like a drink of water on
a very dry hot day. I cannot believe Monica made the time over her
spring break with Olivia to get jetlagged and come to Vienna. The day
they arrived was beautiful and I just couldn't believe they were here.
My kids enjoyed, maybe a little too much, playing the role of tour
guide and it made them feel very cool to be able to show off their
"ubahn skills" (subway). We toured around the city, took in some
sights, got lost, ice skated, celebrated Aiden's birthday, took then
to the church we attend, ate Kebops, and some other Turkish thing
Monica knew about.

One of the highlights was getting a "girls night out" with just
adults! Steve was gracious to let us have a lot of time out and
about but the night out to Vapionos was just special, Monica, Jen
Beilman and I went out and ate good food then took in the city at
night and sneaked into some old churches and cathedrals. It was a
sacred, fun and beautiful weather night. I hope Olivia enjoyed her
time here and took home some good memories. Matthew told her he
didn't like her "clogging" which she did all over Vienna. My son is
so nice! However, he has tried to clog everyday since they left "like
that girl". So mockery is flattery right? Clogging is the new street
dancing.

While our time was great together it is important to note we wished so
bad that Jerald and Karis could have been here with us. Karis was not
far from our thoughts while Monica was here, and that makes me happy.
Karis would have loved it here and loved the sights and smells and
tastes, she was an amazing kid who we miss very much and I am glad
Monica is in my life so I can laugh with her and facebook with her and
watch Olivia clog with her, and be able to talk about Karis!