Monday, April 25, 2011

Torn Between 2 Lovers

If you are my age you remember this song well! It describes how I
feel perfectly! I have made a little life for myself here in Vienna,
albeit small, but a little life and I have one at home waiting for me.
I really don't even know what the song is about, 2 real lovers? 2
places? The reality is is that I am not torn at all, I will be ripped
away from one by Wake Forest University (which I love adore and
respect for letting me have the chance to be here) because apparently
they want to give a lot of professors and other students a chance to
live in this cool house and experience this amazing place, oh and they
want my husband back on campus to teach there too.

So I am working on my break up letter.....tell me what you think.
Dear Vienna,

Let's face it Vienna, if we stayed together you might grown to resent
me for hanging around all the time and trying to find out all your
secrets. I have to go back to my Winston Salem (I know its secrets)
and it still loves me. Sometimes I feel like you are the most good
looking city in the world, problem is you know it and you really take
good care of yourself, with all your clean and safe public
transportation. Don't get me started on how you have treated my
children, okay so sometimes you were grumpy to them, a little
bossy,and little mean talking to them. You are a bit contradicting
when you chastise my child for putting their feet on the seat of the
bus while you have your DOG on the seat next to you (Yes this really
happened). BUT then you go and do something completely surprising
like stopping the bus just because you see me coming with groceries,
or give a little half smile at one of my adorable children when you
don't know I am looking. You have educated me so much about history
and made me a better person! You have taught me a bit different way
to live and consume. Okay so you make a great cup of coffee and
always serve it in a real cup, is there no end to what you can do. I
appreciate the fresh baked bread everyday too! I hope you will let me
keep the pictures I have taken of you? I want to remember you every
day and time you gave me to be with my kids (for better or worse) and
my husband and all your neighbors Prague, Budapest and those guys are
awesome! Your friends at New City Wien also amazing and the Irish
family across the street. So in closing I hope we can be friends,
exchange email addresses and call everyday, or no maybe we should just
have fun with the time we have and meet back here in one year at this
exact same place and time. Yeh, let's do that!

Love,

Your friend for life Annamae

Monday, April 18, 2011

Ich bin ein Berliner

On June 26, 1963, President Kennedy gave one of his most famous speeches in Berlin, Germany. At the time, the Soviets attempted to stop the mass exodus of residents from east to west Berlin by constructing the infamous Berlin wall. In an attempt to convey his solidarity with the plight of the Berliners, Kennedy ended his speech with his famous "ich bin ein Berliner" (I am a Berliner!). The speech both roused the crowd and made quite a few people chuckle. By adding the article of "the" (ein), Kennedy was actually referring to himself as the famous jelly doughnut that shared the name "Berliner."  So, as a tribute to the only president in our history to refer to himself as a jelly doughnut, I bring you some news and views from my most recent trip to the famed city of Berlin:

 

Lillian and I departed on Thursday evening, April 14 on an overnight train from Vienna to Berlin. It was our first overnight train and we were both a bit nervous about what to expect. The room we were in had size bunk beds, 3 along each wall. My reservation was for one of the top bunks; Lillian occupied a bunk on the bottom. We left at around 10:30pm and arrived into Berlin at 9am. Sleeping was problematic for me because I couldn't quite extend my legs out of fear that I would kick an alarm that was positioned over the door. That, coupled with students making noise until after 1am made for a long night. Thankfully, the return trip on Sunday evening the 17th was much better (except for the group of 13 year olds who sounded like monkeys at the Berlin zoo).

 

Our Friday in Berlin was filled with the usual "hiccups" when you visit a new city. We had to figure out the public transportation routes, determine which tickets to buy, and so forth. The more you use public transportation the more you understand the underlying logic that all systems share. But there is still a sense of being lost when you try to figure out how everything is connected.  It took us a couple of hours to get the students checked into their hostel and for Lillian and I to check our bags at our hotel. We were only a couple of blocks from the students and were conveniently located a block from the U-bahn stop and a variety of shops.

 

I decided to pay for all of us to utilize a hop on, hop off city tour bus on our first day so we could get a lay of the land. I think this turned out to be a good choice. We stopped off at Checkpoint Charlie to see where people once had to pass through the Soviet section of Berlin into the Allied controlled section. We found this to be quite touristy, but from my perspective it was worth it just to stand there an imagine what life was like just 50 years ago. We also were able to see parts of the Berlin wall, Potsdamer Platz, Tiergarden Park, the Rathous, and the Reichstag (now Bundestag). That evening Lillian and I enjoyed a great pizza from a local Italian restaurant across the street from our hotel.

 

On Saturday, the RA (Brian) led us to some other famous sites. We spent some time at the Reichstag just sitting on the lawn enjoying the warm sunshine. We inquired about a tour but were told that you have to make reservations 2 weeks in advance because of security concerns! We then walked to the Holocaust Memorial. It was really an unusual memorial. From a distance it looks like hundreds of gray tombstones, but when you get closer your realize that they are simply gray blocks of concrete that are of different sizes and angles. I believe it was constructed in 1997 and the artist wished to convey the senselessness and disorderliness of the holocaust. Each of the concrete slabs was treated with a chemical that allows workers to easily remove graffiti. In a sad twist of irony, the company that produced the chemical for the memorial was also the producer of the gas used in the gas chambers in concentration camps.

 

We concluded our Saturday tour at the famous Sony Center. At first I was rather nonplussed. The Sony Center consists of an IMAX theater, some cafes, a photography museum and a few shops. The buildings are connected in a circle such that there is a large plaza in the middle that is covered by a glass dome. But the large screens that play in the Sony Center show that this is indeed a famous place. Berlin is the sister city to Los Angeles because of  its connection to filmmaking and movie screenings. Many famous people have come to the theater in the Sony Center for premieres.

 

Lillian and I then separated from the students and walked over 5 miles back to our hotel. We ended up back at our Italian restaurant (Portofinos) and each of us sampled a different dish than the night before. We concluded the evening by watching a movie in on my iPad (Imagine That with Eddie Murphy).

 

Sunday was a free day for everyone. Most of us made our way to the Berlin Zoo. It was really a spectacular zoo with many endangered animals. I believe in total there were 17,000 animals in the zoo! Lillian and I took it slow and then made our way to the train station for the return trip. Other students visited the Jewish Museum and a wax museum.

 

Overall, it was an amazing trip for a number of reasons. First, it gave Lillian and I an opportunity to connect in a much needed way. Ever since we came to Vienna I feel that she has had to fight for attention. She is separated from friends and has two brothers who often have needs that can frustrate her. But on this trip we were able to have great conversations, walk through parks while holding hands, enjoy meals without interruptions, and otherwise relax together. I know Annamae and I would love to have this opportunity as well!

 

Second, Berlin was worth seeing in an unexpected way. It is very different from other European cities I have seen, largely because many of the stately historic architectural buildings were destroyed in the war. As such, Berlin is constantly being reconstructed and reflects a confluence of new and old, historic and modern.

 

Third,  Berlin is a vibrant cultural center where art and popular culture reflect something that I found to be unique compared to Vienna. And finally, just being in a place where so much happened in the last 50 years (e.g., Hitler's bunker and suicide, the division of Berlin into 4 sectors, etc) gave me goosebumps. I hope to read and study more about this amazing city.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

We are getting a puppy!!!!!

Check out our new little guy. His name is Gus! We will be picking
him up soon after we get home. We already love him so much!!!!!
Can't wait to meet him. He is a goldendoodle his father is a golden
retriever and his mom is a black standard poodle. He is named after
the street (gasse) we live on here, Gustav Tschermackgasse.

Feast and Fasting....

Here I am in Vienna, a feast for the art lover, the chocolate lover, the wine lover, the history lover, the architect lover, the opera lover, the meat lover, the symphony lover...the list goes on, there are so many things to love and feast on in Europe. I personally have feasted on more than my share of cappuccinos, these cream torte thingys and most of those listed above. The richness and depth that exists here is astounding.

So in comes lent....you know where you sometimes deprive yourself of something delicious for a period of time? Then you gorge on it at the end because you missed it so much. Unless you are my husband then you make little rules along the way like, "you can have the thing you gave up every Sunday during lent" or "oreos are NOT Chocolate", you know the drill. I always change the rules when I "deprive" myself. Little did I know that coming to Vienna, while being a feast for the eyes is a fast of my good friendships. Fasts are supposed to be a learning opportunity right? So what have a learned? A few things I have learned...

1. I NEED friends. I need them in my life. I need people who KNOW me and STILL love me! I think we can sometimes convince ourselves that we don't need people, but I DO!

2. My friends make me a better person. I have friends that will speak into my life and ask me tough questions and help me grow. I have so many super intelligent and amazingly talented friends that I look good just standing next to them! I love that I have friends that nuture the different parts of my soul: my book club, my church friends, my street friends, my college student friends.....so many! Many overlaps here too!

3. There are a lot of people in my life that have moved away to live in other cultures for various reasons. I have been a terrible friend to them! I don't remember to call on skype, mail letters or even email. I hope that being here can help me learn to be a better encourager to those ladies ladies and pray for them.

4. One last thing I have learned is that if you take your kids away from their friends for four months, they will develop new skills, like my boys have learned to use the "countdown" app really well on the Ipad. My daughter has learned how to be a stalker. She looks up all her friends houses on google earth and looks at them when she gets sad. We have been watching yoou.

5. There are amazing people to befriend everywhere, I have loved the new friends I have made and appreciate them making room in their lives for me. I need to always be willing to make "room".

Since I have already mentioned the above you get the idea, you take something for granted, deprive yourself, and then stuff yourself silly when you finally can have it again. So watch out, here I come in one month my friends, your friend Annamae is going to try hard not to be a"gaping hole of sucking need" (I think this is Hunter that said this)but I will bug you, call you and hug your kids like a nut. We are not crazy really we aren't, I have just missed you, love you, and need you. No amount of chocolate can take the place of that, but I gave it a try anyway.....

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

King Richard was in prison here!

So far one of my favorite places so far is "Dürnstein", just a 50
minute train ride from Vienna.  Buy the 28 euro einfach raus ticket
from West Bahnhof and 5 people can go for the day on that one ticket!
It is another 2 euros or so per person to take the very short bus ride
from platform "B" to Dürnstein.  Get to the bus quickly after the
train and you won't have to wait, they work together.  Hike up to the
fortress where King Richard was help captive....we read all about this
in Homeschool 2 years ago.  It is beautiful and quaint. Kids can
pretend to be soldiers attacking the advancing armies.  The town is
amazingly cute!  There are liquors to be tasted and the white wine
there is awesome, the whole town is surrounded by vineyards.  Very
cool place to go and I think it has been one of the kids favorites.
Just in case you are reading this in order to plan travel.  Ticket
purchased from Westbahnhoff train leaves from Spittalaeu.
http://www.duernstein.at/sites/ueber_geschichte_en.php

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Rule #1 Helpful Vienna hints for visitors!

I have learned a thing or two in a short time about living in Vienna.
Throughout this blog will be a bit of a crash course in how to get
around, get things done.

Rule #1 - think about what you get done errand wise in a normal
American day and mark everything except for the 2 most important off
your list and you might accomplish it. For example in 30 minutes at
home I can drop off and check out library books, run through Krankies,
pick up my fruits and veggies from Julie's house, run through Harris
teeter for tonights dinner, and grab a few things at the dollar store,
all while have my daughter text 5 people to plan the next 30 minutes.
Life has slowed down for us quite a lot and I think the thing I
love/hate about home is how productive I can be with a cell phone and
a minivan.

Dragging groceries up a hill both ways, is good but man do you ever
have to priorities in the grocery, I don't care if Diet Coke is on
sale, and so far it never has been, I am not dragging it up the hill
for love or money! Packaged foods like frozen pizza are great but
take up a lot of space in the orange grocery rolling thing. Mind you
this is a staple of our diets! But you have to prioritize, a) can I
carry it and b)if I don't get more of it, I have to get back and
stinking get more tomorrow. A constant dilemma. Our diet here is not
variable at all for this reason. I cannot collect enough stuff to
offer many different kinds of options for meals like we do at home.

Below is a quick breakdown of some stores that was extremely helpful
to me! My friend Jen Beilman and Stacy Hunter were great guides in
this area.

If you see DM - think drug store, CVS, Walgreens
If you see Mueller - think Target, BUT they wrap presents for you for
free! Legos, train sets, kitchen, shampoo.
If you see Hofer - think Aldi cause they are the same thing (bring CASH)
If you see Eurospaar - think Kroger or Harris Teeter
If you see Merkur - think bigger grocery store, lots of brands and departments
If you see Bipa - think Walgreens with a touch of Spencers (even
though they have handcuffs and other police type devices, this is not
a law enforcement supply store) This so far is labeled, store most
likely to get my kids to say, "what is that for mommy?'

This is just an initial list...more later!

It's Winter time! Our first visitors!

Having friends from USA visit us in Vienna is like a drink of water on
a very dry hot day. I cannot believe Monica made the time over her
spring break with Olivia to get jetlagged and come to Vienna. The day
they arrived was beautiful and I just couldn't believe they were here.
My kids enjoyed, maybe a little too much, playing the role of tour
guide and it made them feel very cool to be able to show off their
"ubahn skills" (subway). We toured around the city, took in some
sights, got lost, ice skated, celebrated Aiden's birthday, took then
to the church we attend, ate Kebops, and some other Turkish thing
Monica knew about.

One of the highlights was getting a "girls night out" with just
adults! Steve was gracious to let us have a lot of time out and
about but the night out to Vapionos was just special, Monica, Jen
Beilman and I went out and ate good food then took in the city at
night and sneaked into some old churches and cathedrals. It was a
sacred, fun and beautiful weather night. I hope Olivia enjoyed her
time here and took home some good memories. Matthew told her he
didn't like her "clogging" which she did all over Vienna. My son is
so nice! However, he has tried to clog everyday since they left "like
that girl". So mockery is flattery right? Clogging is the new street
dancing.

While our time was great together it is important to note we wished so
bad that Jerald and Karis could have been here with us. Karis was not
far from our thoughts while Monica was here, and that makes me happy.
Karis would have loved it here and loved the sights and smells and
tastes, she was an amazing kid who we miss very much and I am glad
Monica is in my life so I can laugh with her and facebook with her and
watch Olivia clog with her, and be able to talk about Karis!

Fwd: Chocolate Strawberries - Student love!

The title says it all right?  A BIG shout out to the students who
thought it would be a good idea to make chocolate strawberries with my
kids.  What a gift, it is their favorite food, and it made them feel
extremely cared for.  Can you remember as a kids having a college
student pay attention to you?  Well my kids have that in spades here.
We have a student that comes down and just hangs out with my kids and
gets to know them, even helps Lillian grade her homeschool work.  A
student made cartoon drawing homemade valentines for my kids and
another played Angry Birds for Matthew.  We have students who
selflessly played soccer with my boys the other day (all of my boys)
and passed them the ball.  We have had students compliment my
daughter's fashion and help me figure out freaking fractions.  Another
student spent a great deal of time showing them how to play "Ticket to
Ride" and a few more played with us.  I appreciate it ALL, my kids
think they are the most special kids in the world and well they are to
me so by loving them, you care for me and I thank you!  Kind of makes
me sad I beat them all in the Bracket Challenge.

Spain

This is long overdue. We traveled to Spain for our first break. This
trip started out so good! First of all on the way to the airport we
met a really nice man Godfried who helped us find our way and who we
enjoyed speaking to very much. That is the bittersweet thing about
travel. Along the way you meet people and connect with them, you say
to yourself..."this person would be my friend in another situation, we
would totally hang out!" Alas, you would never know. We don't learn
their last name and will likely never see them again in this world.
It really is great to meet nice people along the way of our journey
though, it gives a view a cross-section view of humanity which for the
most part...is looking pretty good.

So Spain, what can I say, my favorite country in the world, so far..I
haven't seen Italy yet! Why? The people are friendly, kind, funny,
and LOUD! LOVE IT! The vegetables are amazing!!!! Our kids went
bananas over the oranges and peppers! The part of Spain we went to
was cool in that it was a total hangout for English expats who have
opened pubs, fish and chip stands and serve tea. We had fun meeting
interesting people and working on our British English more than our
Spanish. There is not many things cuter than Matthew saying, "would
you like a spot of tea". Spain was relaxing and sunny and a great
break. We met some WS/Lexington friends the Gallahers there for some
Spanish Wine.

While in Spain we celebrated our son Aiden's birthday, he turned 8.
Celebrating my birthday in a bar in Spain sounds like a GREAT idea,
but for an 8 year old maybe they would want to play laser tag with
their friends or something. This little guy. What a treat he is.
His response when I told him we were eating at the resort bar was "I
was HOPING we would eat there for my birthday!" The graciousness
that he displayed while celebrating his birthday humbles me. I love
his kind heart and the joy he reflects when he talks about the little
things. We had a fun family birthday all the while wondering if the
bar guy really did buy a cake. Mind you this is the same bar guy who
told me I was "hot" so I thought he might have had a screw loose...

did I mention before how much I love Spain!

Friday, February 25, 2011

Off to Spain

The fun has begun! After much confusion we made it to the Vienna
airport. Our flight to Malaga is delayed 20 minutes but we should
arrive in plenty of time to enjoy the warm sunshine of southern Spain.
Internet access will be more intermittent but we will try to post as
much as we can.

Adios. Tenga que un buen dia.

--
Steven M. Giles, PhD
Associate Professor
Department of Communication
Wake Forest University
310 Carswell Hall
Winston-Salem, NC 27109
336.758.4442
336.758.4691 (fax)

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

UPDATE

Just a quick word about the pictures below. The one of Lillian is in front of the wall that was built to form the ghetto in Budapest. The ghetto was a walled neighborhood that isolated the Jews into on place in the city. Another picture is of the inside of the synagogue. And you can figure out the picture of the poster about 1945.

Annamae has more pics up on her Facebook page!

Hungary

HUNGARY BLOG

 

Hi all,

This blog is long overdue. Indeed, we have been remiss in not updating the blog site. Please accept our apologies.

 

A few weekends ago we went to Budapest, Hungary. It was a weekend trip with just our family. We found a city sale fare on the OBB website, which is the Austrian website for rail travel. Annamae was reluctant to go because part of her wanted to stay in Vienna and enjoy our beautiful house while meeting with new friends. In retrospect, however, we are glad we went (and no, not because we now no longer like our friends or our beautiful house in Vienna!). We simply had a delightful time in Budapest!

 

One of the challenges of traveling, regardless of country or method, is the fact that mobilizing a battalion that includes three children is no easy task. When we say "we dragged our kids through the museum" you should interpret that in the most literal sense. We, of course, stopped short of actual abuse, but I do not doubt that our children will forever tell their children and all generations that follow that we were awful for subjecting them to historical museums. But in the end the kids were excited to go to Hungary so they could color a new country on their map and find a Turel, which is a bird that is an important Hungarian symbol. It represents the souls of unborn babies (or something like that--our Hungarian isn't very good, you know). These "adventures" give the kids something to think about other than their hurting feed and tired legs. Steve decided a game of ABAYS (sounds like 'obeys,' which he likes), which stands for Always Be Aware of Your Surroundings, would be a good way to occupy the kids as we walked around the city. Steve would see something and then ask the kids what they noticed. If they noticed the object (like the color of the car that just went by) they got points. We finished exactly ONE round of the game before the kids started fighting about the points. Game over.

 

Our first priority upon arriving in Budapest was to visit a Turkish bath. Budapest has 10 medicinal bath and 119 public baths that have earned it the reputation as "the city of baths." The bath we visited had 3 outdoor pools (one was warm, one was cold--for lap swimming, and the third was very hot), or as Goldilocks (Annamae) would say, "one is too cold, one is too hot, and one is just right." These pools were filled with water that was pumped from deep below the surface of the earth. The water is so hot that it has to be cooled before it reaches the surface. Inside there are more small pools, like hot tubs, and a variety of saunas. Steve's favorite sauna was the mint one—it made your nose clear right up. Some of the indoor pools had different minerals and some of the saunas were extremely hot. We spent 4 hours at the baths. That evening Steve slept better than he has in a long time!

 

Sleeping brings me to our next point. Annamae found a wonderful apartment at an affordable price. The apartment was in a good location, across the street from a 24-hour grocery store. We had a full kitchen, 2 bedrooms, and a pull out sofa. We felt like we were living in luxury.

 

The next day we decided that in order to enjoy the breadth of the city we would pay for a hop on-hop off bus. This allowed us to see the entire city while affording us the flexibility to . . . yep, you guessed it . . . hop off the bus when we saw a place worth visiting and hop back on when we were ready to keep moving. Our bus tour allowed us to visit the Citadel, the House of Terror, a castle, and the Jewish Museum. 

 

The Citadel sits at the top of a large hill overlooking Buda and Pest. Though very breezy, it afforded us an opportunity to get a sense of perspective on the city. The House of Terror sounds like a cheesy name for a Disney ride, but it was actually an amazing museum. The house was the former building used as the Nazi headquarters during WWII, and then later as a place of interrogations by the Communist occupiers. The museum is well done and a somber place to realize the worst of human ability to exploit and treat neighbors as something less than human. But those people who managed to survive have served as an inspiration and testament to the capacity of the human spirit for hope and survival. One of our college students said that he learned more in that museum in a few hours than he did in a year of history class. We would agree with him.

 

The other museum we visited was the Jewish Museum that was in a huge synagogue. This was a sacred place that few words can describe. There were many monuments to many Jewish, and even non-Jewish, people who died at the hands of the Nazis. Our last stop was to a castle that we were told was the inspiration behind Sleeping Beauty.

 

Overall, we really enjoyed Hungary. Everything was much more affordable than in Vienna, most of the people spoke good English, and we found that people in general were very amicable. Given its history, beauty, and affordability we would strongly suggest a visit to Hungary for anyone looking for an eastern European excursion!

 

 

Jointly submitted by Annamae and Steve

Striking Resemblance?

Frank Josef, emperor of Austria, cerca 1914 and Steve Giles, emperor of Giles family, cerca 2011.



A Difference a Shave Makes

Have you ever had a day where you just knew that you needed a change? Some people commit to an exercise regimen, others stop eating carbs, while there are those who sign up for a woodworking class at their local community college. I have friends whose change began with one of those rubber bands you wear on your wrist. Every time you have a bad thought you self-flagellate and snap the doggone thing such that the pain will somehow make you more aware of your terrible thought life. But me? I'm extreme. I'm bad. I'm the new sheriff in town (see the pics above). I love a look that gives you two looks--circle and square. Yes, my friends, you can stick a square peg in a round hole when you've got the tasteful Civil War mustache!


Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Pictures

Just put up a ton of pictures of Budapest, Prague, and making Veinner
Snitzel up on Facebook! I can't get that many up on here. More
updates soon about those trips to those places. They are written just
not posted.

--
Annamae Giles, MSW
annamaetg@gmail.com
336-918-7124

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Help with my Skates!

More Skating Day!

Matthew having trouble with his hurt finger, with his skates, and with
being normal in pictures.  Or maybe this is normal!

More Skating Day!

Matthew having trouble with his hurt finger, with his skates, and with
being normal in pictures.  Or maybe this is normal!

More pictures of Ice Skating day!

More pictures of SKATING

Schoenbrunn Palace Tour - Travel Notes - Tour Ideas

So Sunday before last we went to the Schoenbrunn Palace. BEAUTIFUL!
The kids semi enjoyed it. The best part of the tour for the little
guys was the audio recorder devices that told them about the rooms.
One the most basic level this Palace is the summer home of the
Hapsbergs gazillion years ago. Most notably, Maria Theresa and King
Leopold, and Marie Antionnette and Napoleons wife and son all lived in
this house at one time or the other. Franz Joseph and Elizabeth were
really famous royals who lived here also. I will let you read about
it here http://www.schoenbrunn.at/en/. It was amazing!!!!! Beautiful.
Think Biltmore Estate TIMES 25 or so. I am trying to keep all the
history straight but it is really hard when you are talking about
hundreds of years. American History is so short so I am having a hard
time keeping it all straight. I forgot my Story of the World book but
am having it sent straight away so we can ALL read it again! Some
pictures are attached of us on this very very cold day. A tip to the
traveler, in the winter you can get a Winter Pass that lasts 1 month
from the date of purchase and you can get into all 5 attractions at
the Schoenbrun on different dates within that month. We have only
used one so far and that is the Palace Grand Tour.
http://www.schoenbrunn.at/en/

--
Annamae Giles

Skating at the Rothaus

Yesterday we had the pleasure of taking the kids ice skating in front of the Rothaus (City Hall). Particularly striking was the contrast between a new world order consisting of skate rental, man made ice rink, 80's music (OK, not so "new world"), and refreshment stands, and the old historical buildings that framed us in on each side. My attention was being torn between watching my kids and staring at the amazing architecture. 

Lillian was a whiz on the rink. Matthew struggled but was happy to have a sister who would skate him around the rink. Aiden seemed to get better with each loop around the rink. The rink was quite extraordinary; it was actually two separate circular rinks connected by paths that ran around and behind each of the rinks. There was also a "kiddie" rink made of fake ice where parents could walk along side their kids as they held onto plastic penguins for balance. Matthew did his "training" here, as he called it. But when asked if he was getting good enough to get on the real ice rink he replied, "no, I'm getting worser." But minutes after this statement he proclaimed, "I'm good. I can skate." He has never been short on confidence.

The weather was spectacularly warm and we all had a good time. The photo above is my attempt to capture the contrast between new world and old world order. The building in the background is actually not the Rothaus. It is a famous theater that sits across the road from the skating rinks. It actually faces back toward the Rothaus.


Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Want to Love on a Giles Kid?

You wanna love on a Giles kid?  They would love some mail....  here is the address.  Just put their name at the top of the envelope!

Gustav Tschermak-Gasse 20
1190 Vienna, Austria


Saturday, January 29, 2011

Giles for President

So this morning I was pondering how countless service requirements at WF often get in the way of being a productive teacher and scholar. I told Annamae, "If I'm ever the president of a University, I'm going to implement a low service policy." She started laughing and said I needed to repeat that sentence while looking at myself in a mirror. The picture above is what I look like this morning! 


Friday, January 28, 2011

Challenger

On this day in 1986, at 11:38am the much anticipated Space Shuttle Challenger lifted off from Cape Canaveral, Florida. As a 15-year old high school sophomore I'll never forget the excitement that surrounded this particular event. The fact that Christa McAuliffe, a 37-year old social studies teacher, would become the first civilian to fly into space made it relevant for students and teachers alike. At this point in the space program children could only dream of becoming astronauts. By the time you were my age you realized that being an astronaut was only for the elite. But if civilians could fly into space then the sky was no longer the limit, so to speak. I remember teachers rolling TV's into classrooms so everyone could witness this historic moment. I also remember the shock waves that reverberated around the country when a mere 73 seconds later the shuttle exploded, killing Christa and all the astronauts on board. It was a chilling moment and stark reminder that there was nothing safe about traveling to the heavens. It also made the word "o-ring" a household name. So in dedication to the Space program, Christa, and all the others who have literally given their lives for science I move onto the notes . . .

--Today is shaping up to be a good Friday. We promised the kids that we would visit a cafe after they got out of school; Aiden is looking forward to getting his Bionical as payment for sticking out 2 weeks of school. I know most of you probably think it is bad parenting to bribe your children to do something that they should otherwise do. But I'm an ocean away from you and really do not care what you think. OK. I do care. But desperate times call for desperate measures-- you need to walk in my shoes before you . . . take the plank out of your own eye before you take the one out of mine . . . and so on.

--I believe all of the students managed to get to the train this morning for their trip to Hungary. I just checked the upstairs and other than the usual mess it seemed quite empty. Some students were up at 3am so my guess is they decided it would be easier to stay up all night than to go to sleep and to awake at reasonable hours. Oh to be young. Annamae and I are planning a trip to Budapest some time in the near future. I hear the Turkish baths are amazing. I love me a Turkish bath with a side of mashed potatoes and gravy!

--Speaking of Hungary, I am perplexed by the fact that I continue to seemingly gain weight. I really cannot explain this other than to say it must be genetic. I mean, I start the day with a few cups of coffee and low fat cereal with soy milk. One thing that makes the coffee really good is to put Caffe Milch in it. It has 6.5g of fat per 100g serving, whatever that means. The bread here is so fresh that it must be healthy for you. Because it doesn't have preservatives you pretty much have to eat the whole thing in a day. The chocolate really cannot be that bad for you, either, because it comes in these small little packages. You really cannot get a taste for it with your first 3 pieces but by the 4th piece--YUM. Anyway, with my weight gain I am slowly giving up my dream of wearing a pair of black Euro skinny jeans. And I would have looked so smart on our trip to Spain.
-- With the students out of the house the Giles family is planning to PARTY! We mentioned this to the students and they just snortled in that condescending, "you don't know how to party" kind of way. They apparently do not know the Giles family! I know it sounds crazy, but we may cook dinner in THEIR kitchen, watch a movie on THEIR common floor, and . . . wait for it . . . blast Vivaldi on the iPod stereo! This beats a game of beer pong on any day of the week, except maybe Thursday. Beer pong on Thursday's seems like it would be fun.

--Clarity. Simplicity. These are two adjectives that best describe my experience to date. I've found that I am able to work with great focus on a couple of goals, like preparing for class and finishing a couple of papers. Annamae and I are both finding that everything here seems much simpler than our lives in Winston-Salem. We only have a suitcase worth of clothes, which means laundry never really can pile up. With public transportation you have simple goals for each day, like getting a few groceries from the Spar (see chocolate, wine, and bread) or visiting a shop/cafe. Everything seems to be slowing down, priorities seem to be coming into focus, and our stress level is at an all-time low. Hanging out with people is not a burden or something you schedule, it is a natural way of life. I would love to bottle this and bring it home, but it is probably healthier just to accept this trip as a sabbatical rather than a new way of life. Besides, the airport would probably confiscate our bottle of serenity because it would be deemed unsafe for travel. But if I could just cut down on committee work and advising I know that I could actually get really important things accomplished. If not, then I think WF should adopt the Austrians' view on alcohol in the workplace. Kidding. Sort of.

To all of our faithful followers (you both know who you are), we wish you a grand weekend. Keep checking back as we will continue to post pictures and report on our latest adventures. I never assume that our life is that interesting to others, but we will keep writing nonetheless.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

School Update

Last week I posted an entry about the kids' school experience. I wanted to take a few moments to provide a brief update.

Lillian and Aiden have each experienced ups and downs in regards to their new school. One day after Lillian triumphantly walked through the doors of the Cottage-gasse school she was crying about how hard everything was. She felt that her teacher yelled at her during one lesson, and she was struggling to understand other kids. But she quickly rebounded and seems to have settled back in. I tried to counsel her by saying that since she didn't know what the teacher was saying she really couldn't know if the teacher was upset with her. Indeed, nonverbal expressions can vary quite dramatically across cultures and without a verbal context can be difficult to decipher. My advice to Lillian was to perform a "validity anger test." I said that the next time she felt her teacher was yelling at her she should casually close all of her fingers into a fist, turn the back of her hand toward the teacher, and then slowly raise her middle finger. If her teacher understood this symbol then Lillian would get to see what the teacher really looked like when she was angry. OK, I didn't tell her that but you must admit that it would be a really cool cross cultural experiment.

Aiden has also rebounded after a couple of days of near meltdowns. On one particular morning he refused to get his shoes on. He staunchly declared he was not going to school. He didn't like school and was not going back and that was all there was to it. I tried to the best of my capacity to issue gentle fatherly advice about how things would get better, how Joseph was courageous when sold into slavery, yada yada. That got me absolutely nowhere so I decided to play hardball. "Aiden!" I intoned. "If you don't get your shoes on right now and go to school then you will have no iPod for the rest of our trip." The "p" on "trip" had barely formed on my lips when he shouted, "NO! NOT THE iPOD!" (my students said my impersonation of this sounded like the gingerbread boy in the Shrek movie who yelled, "No, not the gum drop buttons" or something like that). I felt bad that I had to hit him below the belt, but he went to school and came home in a fine mood. His biggest concern at present is that a bunch of girls tease him by making kissing noises and saying, "marry, marry." I told him that the girls think he's cute and they are flirting with him. I advised him that he should not allow them to isolate him in a deserted area of the school grounds since girls have cooties. But (I said) if they are the daughters of any of the ambassadors that live in the neighborhood he should gladly accept and invitation for his family to join her family for dinner.

Lillian gets to go skating tomorrow with her class. I'm sure she will post on that later. Until next time . . . hugs and kisses.


A meaningful encounter.....

After taking Matthew on a "date" in a little cafe just off the 40A busline today and eating a "tornado potato", cappacino, chocolate cake, french fries, and chicken nuggets we began to make our way home. While we were sitting on the bench waiting for the bus a well dressed, older gentleman approached. I quickly told Matthew to hop up and we would wait standing to give him our spot. He was shorter than me with a kind face. I have a tendency to smile and say "hello" to people, a sentiment that is not often returned here. Today this man approached me, he came close and said in German "you can have the bench", I said the usual, "that's okay, sorry I don't speak German." Then this sweet man engaged me. He asked me in German/English is Matthew was a boy or girl, and his age which Matthew answered in German. He regarded Matthew thoughtfully and then asked me "Are you Americans?" I told him yes, then he put out his hands in a position to indicate his hands in handcuffs and said, "I was a prisoner in America for 5 years, 1 in Alabama, and 4 in South Carolina." (honestly I had no clue that we brought German soldiers to the US for prison). He said he was captured in 1943 when he was 19 years old in Austria when the Americans came. The bus pulled up and we started quickly walking to catch it, as he stepped away from me he said quickly, "I love America" or "I love Americans", I couldn't catch exaclty the wording. I couldn't get to him on the bus a woman was standing in front of him but I wanted to know more. I prayed that we would be getting off that the same stop. Then I realized he was getting off at the U bahn stop and I was still on the bus. The bus sat parked for a moment and he scanned each window until he found Matthew and me, he waved at each of us individually making sure that Matthew saw him and looked into his eye. Then he tipped his hat, kept it tipped until we pulled away and stood waving at me until the bus was out of sight.

Today is one of those times I wish I were an eloquent writer who could somehow convey how I felt after an encounter with this Viennese man today. All I can do is try to tell the story. It is an experience that prompts me to want to read more, understand history more, and be ready more often to hear someone's story. Through my social work in the VA, Hospice and healthcare I have encountered countless American veterans. I Love veterans and am related to veterans currently serving and those who served the generations that proceeded mine. I have met people from Czech who have been affected by displacement in WWII, I have watched countless history episodes on the History Channel but today was the first time I met a veteran in the German Army. I regret more than anything not jumping off the bus and finding out the rest of the story...

Monday, January 24, 2011

Yummy

Just a funny quote of the day from Matthew. When you are in a new country you say things you would never say at home. I went to the grocery store today and when the older kids came home from school Matthew says, "guess what kind of chocolate Mom got TODAY?!?".

Another crazy thing about today is that I got a new phone and it was way easier to let Lillian set it up than figure it out myself. That is a sign of age or something!


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Thursday, January 20, 2011

Back to School

This week has been characterized by a "back to school" theme. I began teaching on Monday and Lillian and Aiden started at the local public school on Wednesday (pic above is on our landing before heading to school). On to a few notes: 

·      * I've been very pleased with the transition my students have made from party-going tourist to serious student during this week. I set some very high expectations for them, not just for academic performance but also for professional commitment to their own learning. Thus far, they have more than risen to the occasion.  In one of my classes we are discussing moral theory and health ethics. Our class yesterday was very spirited, and my challenge will be to create a framework for healthy discussion rather than Jerry Springer shenanigans.

·      * We had 3 students and the RA to dinner last night. We have planned weekly meals with 3-4 students each Weds night. If the rest of the dinners are like last night's gathering, then this will be a very fruitful semester. Annamae and I are learning a great deal about the students, and they have seemed interested in getting to know us better. I'm always surprised when 19 year olds express interest in hanging out with "old" people with kids. I tend to envy their independence and they seem to envy our community. I hope this continues because it really is the aspect of teaching that gives me the most satisfaction.

·     *  We found spots for Lillian and Aiden at the public school that is about 5 blocks away (a 9-minute walk). Aiden was very apprehensive about going. He tends to have a lower fear threshold, but once he breaks through he is really quite courageous and amazing. Yesterday was no different. He didn't want to go to school. Once there he didn't want to stay. The teacher very strategically said that he could just sit with his parents and watch the kids in gym class. Once he realized that the kids were all very sweet and normal, and once Annamae sweetened the deal by throwing in a chocolate Kinder Egg to go along with the Hero Factory set he would get for staying in school for two weeks, he decided to follow the class to their next period. This morning he woke up and couldn't wait to get to school. That is my Aiden. He needs some pushing to get out of his comfort zone, but once he's there he does not turn back. And he is just so darn cute. I learned yesterday that flirting has a universal language; little girls were vying for Aiden's attention!

·     *  Lillian was a different story. Indeed, the main impetus for our putting the kids in school was the fact that Lillian desperately wanted to go. Well, this is coupled with the fact that after two weeks together in our apartment we were becoming an in-grown family. Aiden and Matthew together was a volatile mix: 3 parts foolishness, 2 parts testosterone, and 1 part mischievousness and you get the picture. And Lillian was also a contributing factor, so you can throw in a little estrogen and control-demand tendencies. School was not so much an option as it was a necessity. Anyway, back to Lillian. When we visited her classroom she walked right in, was introduced by the teacher, and just grabbed a seat. She was almost AGGRESSIVE in pursuing this opportunity. I stood behind her and couldn't help but feel that I was watching my daughter grow up right in front of my eyes! The hard part for me wasn't sending our daughter to her first school as much as realizing that it was time to let a part of her go. I was both extremely proud and undeniably melancholic. I guess all parents cross this bridge at some point in their lives.  I just thought my life had a little more time before I got here.

·      * The school is quite a contrast to the schools I've visited in the U.S. First, kids are not allowed to wear shoes in the school. Upon entering the school they put on house shoes. The principle said our kids could just buy some "cheap" ones from the shoe store. They were 30 euros! The kids then keep the slippers in a little bag at school. Second, the kids are very well behaved. The teachers I observed never raised their voices above a normal conversational tone. This has the effect of forcing listeners to be very quiet so they can hear. We have actually found our kids have become less loud and boisterous, especially on buses and trains. They are no less happy; rather, they have accommodated to the noise of their environment. Third, Annamae described buying school supplies as a combination of what life was like when we were kids and a Harry Potter wand shop experience. You basically go to the school supply store, bring your list, and the person starts filling your basket. You don't find a Walmart or Target and stock up on supplies. Most places are mom and pop shops. I actually REALLY like this. Finally, and perhaps most bizarrely, the kids do not change into gym clothes in a separate locker room. The boys and girls stand in a room just outside the gym and strip down to their undies. They have a little gym bag with shorts and t-shirt that they put on (no shoes) and hit the gym floor. The girls and boys seemed to have no reservations about being nearly naked in front of each other, and they really took no notice of anyone else. After school little boys could be observed walking hand-in-hand down the street. Neither of these examples has sexual connotations. Rather, it is just a difference in gender roles that are formed from an early age.

·      * My last note for what is becoming a very long blog entry is that we are still looking for a Kindergarten for Matthew. He is very sweet when you get him alone, but he also spends most of the day either asking for chocolate or when Aiden will be home. Unfortunately, private Kindergarten's are very expensive (like 400 euros a month!). I love my son, but not enough to go into debt so he can be a little less bothersome or bored.

·      We hope you all are well!


--
Steven M. Giles, PhD
Associate Professor
Department of Communication
Wake Forest University
310 Carswell Hall
Winston-Salem, NC 27109
336.758.4442
336.758.4691 (fax)

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Bits and Bites! Some of our favorite yummies!

So as many of you who know me know, I like to eat! I like good food and I like different food. We have forgone the rules of our recent diet changes to be able to enjoy the riches of this new place. With strict food guidelines and individual personal convictions about food here in Vienna, we have been told and believe strongly that we are eating quality products when we partake of meat, cheeses, and local street vendors. It is fun to shop at the grocery and buy something you have no idea what it will taste like but take the plunge anyway. One of the great and fantastic finds we have made is this brand of bread (see picture), when you slice off a hunk and give it to your kids and hear "this tastes like pound cake" you know you have found a winner! In addition to the loaf tasting like pound cake the sandwich bread of this same brand follows suit and does a 6 rotation dive into my frying pan when I make french toast with it. I never had imagined french toast made out of pound cake, but seriously I am game now! Also of enjoyment to my kids is this carbonated apple drink (see picture)! IF you look at the picture closely AFTER your kids have guzzled half a bottle you might have a bit of a start as I did and think you just served them some sweet form of beer. IF this happens to you can can find the english description here, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Almdudler. Another food I have yet to see in USA, but maybe I wasn't looking, but I know for sure I NEVER bought it by accident is pasta sauce with a jalepano on the label. This is quite surprising if you notice the jalepano on the label as you are bolting to the kitchen to drink the water! The WATER!!!! OMGoodness it is AMAZING! Truly out of this world, out of the alps really, but wowza, right out of the tap pure sweet refreshment. I don't want to drink water from any other source...which by the way you barely can. I have seen 2 bottles of water since arriving in Vienna. 2 that's right. No one carries bottles of water around, they are not for sale in the store in packs of 24 and there are not coolers with 100 different kinds of drinks and waters for sale anywhere I have been. Every single place of business and person seems to be fully committed to the idea of conservation and recycling, I LOVE that. Happy Eating!


Personality Pic

Last night Annamae and I were invited out to a pub with the students. We headed out around the time that we normally get ready for bed, and got home around the time we normally wake up (OK, that is a bit of an exaggeration). We awoke at 10am with Aiden in our bed saying he was "starving." 

After Annamae and I shook the cobwebs off of your youthfulness we headed in opposite directions. She went with Lillian and a student (Tiffany) downtown to shop. I took the boys on a walk through the park to get a Kebap, a Turkish dish that is out of this world (and cheap). Unfortunately, the kebap stand was closed and we had to settle for a piece of chocolate torte cake at a nearby cafe. They didn't seem to upset by the change in menu.

The picture above is of the front of the Flow House. I didn't realize it at the time, but I now see that Matthew intentionally crossed his eyes right before this picture. After downloading the pic I couldn't help but laugh because the picture seems to really capture the difference in our boys' personality. Aiden gives the sweet smile; Matthew plays the role of screwball. I hope this picture makes you laugh as hard as I did!


Tuesday, January 11, 2011

New Friends

Today was a very "normal" day for me. Well if you subtract out the 2 bus rides, 3 tram rides (should have been 2) and the 8 block walk (should have been 2), Aiden learning how to use his ticket on the tram, and Aiden finding all of our stops (I didn't listen the first time hence the extra tram ride and the extra walked blocks), and Matthew using his quiet voice on the train while reminding me not to leave my groceries on the bus......it was a normal day! But don't work the chocolate, bread, and wine all made it home to Flow House Safe and Sound! For the normal part. I got to hang out with some new friends and minimally help them with their move to a new house. My kids had a blast playing with legos and wii and having a "playdate". I love how my boys can get together with kids and act like they knew each other forever! They have grasped easily what I still need to learn....people are people and fun to be around, they have not judged, they are having fun! Anyway I got to stay for dinner after our playdate with our new friends the Beilmans. What a delight they are! Glad to have met them, they have been such an encouragement to us here as we have transitioned. Excited to see what God has in store for us here and how He will knit our lives with new people, new friends, each other, and the college students. I have no doubt that somehow the paths of some people I have met here will cross each other in my future and I do not want to take that potential for granted! Annamae

Hitler's Balcony

Traveling through Vienna is in many ways like opening a book of stories that, though distinct, are woven together by socio-political historical events. Today, for instance, we passed by building after building, each of which begged for a picture. Then we came to the building pictured above and our guide said, "Hitler stood on the balcony of that building and spoke to 50,000 Austrians who packed this street." The moment was chilling, for you could almost feel the weight of a crowd, eager with anticipation, craning their necks to see this man who would become for the modern world its most evil villain. What a confusing and vulnerable time for many Austrians.

We also learned today that Vienna's diversity (ethnic, architecture, etc) is due in large part to its strategic location in the resistance of Turk invasions. As the Turks advanced from the east it was decided that Vienna would be the final wall of defense, for if the Turks were to make it to the Alps they could hide and scatter and make victory very nearly impossible. Ironically, the park that is located one block from where we are staying, Turkenschanz Park, is where that "wall" was. In fact, Turks who were captured were thrown over a wall to their death. I'll remember that the next time I walk by joggers, dogs, and kids playing within the boundaries of that park!

Latte art

Today we ventured to a cafe near the city center. The man who runs the cafe is the Austrian national champion for latte art (who would have known there was such a thing). The coffee is free but he takes donations. I had an espresso while the students had cappuccinos. The picture above is one I took of one of the student's drinks. The coffee was delicious and I look forward to spending more time there!


Super Matt!

Matthew decided to flex his muscles. I must say that we do feed him.



Monday, January 10, 2011

Ah, and another

Last one.


one more . . .

And another . . . 

Another

Here is another.

--
Steven M. Giles, PhD
Associate Professor
Department of Communication
Wake Forest University
310 Carswell Hall
Winston-Salem, NC 27109
336.758.4442
336.758.4691 (fax)

Pictures are Worth Thousands of Words




Sorry for the delay in posting some blogs. I have much to update, including an entry about a restaurant I went to last night with the students. Annamae will be along to talk about attending church. We also did a train/bus tour around the city so we will be taking our camera and updating this site quite frequently. We are hoping the weather changes, for better or even worse. Everyday has been in the 30's and foggy and wet. The snow has melted and we haven't seen sunshine or snow yet.

Until we get these updates posted I leave you with some pictures.

Saturday, January 8, 2011

The Pizza Place



Hi, this is Aiden and I would like to tell you about something we did today.

Today my daddy, his students, and Guenter went on a walking tour of the area. They invited my family and me to join them. First, we walked about 6 blocks to a Jewish cemetery. The cemetery is only open 2 days a year and is protected by a large stone wall with barbed wire. This is to keep people from coming in and "desecrating" (spray painting) the graves and headstones.

Next, we went to the train station and we bought tickets. These tickets allow us to travel on the train and bus for one month. Tomorrow my mommy wants to take us to church on the bus and train while my daddy does work with the students.

Finally, we did my favorite thing! We went to a pizza place. I had a margarita pizza. This is a cheese pizza. All of the pizzas are personal pizzas, but they are huge so I split mine with my brother (but I didn't know I had split mine with my brother). I learned that if you want a pepperoni pizza you order the salami, which is from Hungary. If you order a pepperoni pizza you will be given one with a bunch of jalapeno peppers! My daddy learned that when you pay the bill you tip 10% and tell them how much you want to pay. For example, if you owed 8 euros and you want to give them 1 euro for a tip, you would hand them a 10 euro bill and say "nine." Then they know to give you one euro back. My daddy messed this up (ha ha ha). You don't leave the tip on the table.

So far we are all having a good time. Matthew wishes it would snow but the weather is warm enough to go out and play. I think I will go do that now with my daddy.

Aiden

Friday, January 7, 2011

Turkenschanz Park



We visited the Turkenschanz Park today. It is one block from the Flow House and consists of beautiful ponds, a skating rink, numerous playgrounds, a restaurant, a dog park, and impressionable beauty. We walked through the paths with the kids today, stopping to enjoy many of the "new" playground attractions. Below is a picture of one of those attractions, followed by Matthew's experience of being thrown from said attraction. Enjoy!